Youthscape have announced the contributor lineup for the National Youth Ministry Weekend taking place from 10th – 12th November in Birmingham. Speakers include Kenda Creasy Dean, Patrick Regan and Miriam Swaffield and worship will be led by Tim Hughes and the Worship Central team.
To find out more and book tickets, visit youthscape.cu.uk/nymw
Andy and Sarah are headed to the Old Alresford Place, 19th June 2-7pm, for an afternoon drop in sessions for all those working with Children, Families and Young people in the Alresford Deanery – or those who wish they were!
Come along with any of your questions, check out our resources stand, even bring your team for a bit of training (drop us an email if you’d like to book a specific training slot – firstname.lastname@example.org).
We’ll be there from 2pm until 7pm, so come before the school run or after work. We’d love to encourage and resource you!
It’s for… children and youth leaders, clergy, liscensed ministers, parents, volunteers, interested parties, PCC members, grandparents – you name it!
A day away looking at Healing Divides and Becoming Peacemakers.
We live in a divided world and constantly hear of division and opposition to others viewpoints on both a local and global scale. On the 22nd April 2017 at St Mark’s Church, Peterborough attendees will unpack what these divisions mean to the way we lead our lives.
This event is open to young people aged 14 – 25 as well as clergy and youth leaders.
It’s free and lunch is included!
To find out more watch the video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4yBGEudlIM
If you are aged 16-25 please register for yourself at www.ceyc.org/april2017 If you are aged 14 or 15 please ask your youth leader to register and attend with you!
The Beacon Cathedral Event last year was a huge success with lots of youth groups coming along to join in.
This year, on Pentecost Sunday Evening, 4th June, at the Cathedral, the event will be happening again.
New Wine worship leader, Neil Bennetts, is coming to lead worship and there will be a packed programme of prayer and engagement.
Cathedrals across the UK are gathering together at the same time to worship God and pray for his Spirit. Tickets will be available soon – we’ll let you know once they are. But get it marked in your diary now
‘Daniel’ – SHOW AT ST PAUL’S CHURCH
Saturday 28th January ‘17 at 5pm
By children and young people – all welcome to join in
Singing, Drama, Music, Fun
contact Revd Mary Copping 07921 886016
Mental Health – it’s the hot topic of the moment when it comes to working with young people. But how well are we managing to keep up as Christian Youth workers and churches? That was the topic for discussion when we gathered a group of youth leaders for a Round table discussion in November.
It was evident that all of us had brought our own stories, questions and experiences with us and evident that the young people in our youth ministries are all grappling with questions around mental health, whether for themselves or for their friends and families.
We brought some really big questions with us:
- When do I talk to parents/school about mental health disclosure?
- How can we best support and help young people when the NHS/School systems are so full of people needing help?
- How can we best support CYP, families, and peers who struggle with mental health (ADHD, Autism, Self-Harm, Suicide)?
- What’s the scale of the problem?
And some wide ranging concerns
- Anxiety – an epidemic
- Gender dysphoria
- Not knowing who to go to to find information
- Culture of escalation/Rising tide
- Meeting needs of CYP and parents
- Supporting schools
- Dealing with suicide
It felt to the whole group like a whole lot had changed in the landscape in the last 5 years or so…
- Increased pressure on young people – like Image and social media and Career choice by Year 8
- Decreased CAMHS capacity
- Social media – Cyber bullying = 24/7, Role models, Trolling
- Drugs – MCATs, Vaping, Sex, Psychosis
- Labelling– Traits vs. Diagnosis, Self/Parent Diagnosing
- On the plus side – it’s now ‘on the radar’ -Some church engagement, Talking more, More resources & expertise
But we felt, there were a growing number of challenges for us as Youth leaders. Ranging from:
- Being Leaders with mental health struggles or working along side colleagues who are struggling
- Organisations, like NHS and local government, sometimes looking to churches to pick up the slack
- Support can be very resource heavy (especially for Leaders)
- What does Discipleship look like in all this?
- How do we support Parents
- Facing issues of Suicide in our ministries
- Engaging with issues around Gender dysphoria – challenges of legality, safeguarding, parents, and leaders’ clarity.
- And many more
So what was the group’s advice for youth leaders?
- Talk about Mental Health issues – both in up front/organised Talks and but also in passing conversations
- Be Pro-active in engagement when stuff has gone wrong
- Create programmes that encourage positive mental health – engaging with exercise, quiet space, fun, etc
And, finally, Jackie (Diocesan Safe Guarding Adviser) and I (Sarah) got our homework to do, with requests for:
- Training Days
- In-house or small regional events
- Potential of working with candidates
- Professionals – get it right
- Process mapping for disclosures
- Resource list (to include Christian counselling and secular counselling)
- Gather stories from people who’ve gone through youth groups with mental health struggles
- Create a debrief process for leaders and safeguarding advisers
- Support for Campaigning on Mental Health issues
We’re in discussion about how we follow up – so watch this space!
A huge thank you to those youth leaders who brought their wisdom and expertise to the discussion. We’d love to hear from you if you’ve got thoughts. And please know, if you’re grappling with Mental Health challenges in your ministry, we’re here to support you!